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Finding My Abandoned Inner Child

Chat Workshop December 15, 2003

Facilitator: Christine Salazar

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:31:44 PM)
hello everyone

K (15-Dec-03 5:31:47 PM)
hi all

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:31:49 PM)
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K (15-Dec-03 5:31:55 PM)
hi Bjelke

Cindy - MODERATOR / GCA (15-Dec-03 5:31:58 PM)
Welcome to our Monday Evening Online Workshop! The topic is: Finding My Abandoned Inner Child. Cindy MODERATOR/Galactic Counselor Apprentice

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:32:03 PM)
hello Bjelke

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:32:03 PM)
Hi:)

magic (15-Dec-03 5:32:06 PM)
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Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:32:15 PM)
Hello Christine

magic (15-Dec-03 5:32:23 PM)
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Ed (15-Dec-03 5:32:26 PM)
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Cindy - MODERATOR / GCA (15-Dec-03 5:32:32 PM)
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Ed (15-Dec-03 5:32:59 PM)
hello all, I am new am I in the right spot for the online chat for tonight at 8pm cst?

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Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 5:33:18 PM)
yes Ed, welcome

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:33:18 PM)
welcome everyone

K (15-Dec-03 5:33:23 PM)
yes you are Ed

cindy (15-Dec-03 5:34:01 PM)
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Ed (15-Dec-03 5:34:02 PM)
ty K.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:34:23 PM)
ok lets get started

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:34:38 PM)
I seem to be lagging should I reboot? Or is this normal?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:34:52 PM)
I want to work through the title

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:35:14 PM)
as posted above it is Finding my Abandoned Inner Child

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:35:21 PM)
ty, k and Cindy

rach (15-Dec-03 5:35:24 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:35:30 PM)
is everyone familiar with the Inner Child?

Susan (15-Dec-03 5:35:33 PM)
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K (15-Dec-03 5:35:36 PM)
yup

Laura (15-Dec-03 5:35:36 PM)
yes

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:35:37 PM)
y

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:35:38 PM)
Yes

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:35:43 PM)
somewhat

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 5:35:52 PM)
yep

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:35:56 PM)
as a quick review

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:36:06 PM)
My Inner Child is that childlike part of me whose job it is to preserve my physical self

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:36:16 PM)
She tries to protect me from emotional pain and from physical harm.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:36:26 PM)
She communicates to me through the physical body by minor aches and pains as well as long-term disease and physical disorders.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:36:38 PM)
She is the one who lets me know when my needs are getting fulfilled or not.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:36:53 PM)
What are needs?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:37:03 PM)
can you name some?

Laura (15-Dec-03 5:37:14 PM)
priorities to survival of the ego

Cindy - MODERATOR / GCA (15-Dec-03 5:37:17 PM)
play

Katja (15-Dec-03 5:37:22 PM)
safety

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:37:33 PM)
good ones

K (15-Dec-03 5:37:37 PM)
emotional security

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 5:37:41 PM)
love

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:37:45 PM)
self esteem

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:37:47 PM)
to be loved and have acceptance

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 5:37:48 PM)
finding chocolate

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:37:59 PM)
yes emotional and physical needs

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:38:24 PM)
the physical ones are the most ovious

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:38:27 PM)
obvious

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:38:37 PM)
the emotional ones are sometimes less so

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:39:11 PM)
our safety and daily physical needs help us stay alive

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:39:19 PM)
food shelter clothing etc

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:39:35 PM)
but it is too easy to ignore our emotional needs

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:39:45 PM)
we all want to be loved

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:39:59 PM)
and to feel good about ourselves

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:40:16 PM)
but we don't always do that

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:40:34 PM)
we ignore our own needs

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:40:42 PM)
we abandon our Inner Child

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:40:56 PM)
How do we abandon the Inner Child?

Laura (15-Dec-03 5:41:05 PM)
caretakeing others

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:41:08 PM)
not getting our needs met

rach (15-Dec-03 5:41:13 PM)
stuffing emotions

K (15-Dec-03 5:41:19 PM)
Ignore and go away

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 5:41:20 PM)
don't listen

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:41:27 PM)
by supressing our true feelings to curtail to other ppl needs, wants and ideology

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:41:45 PM)
yes all of these

Laura (15-Dec-03 5:41:46 PM)
not play enough

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:41:58 PM)
that is the hard one laura

Susan (15-Dec-03 5:42:05 PM)
eating

Susan (15-Dec-03 5:42:29 PM)
that is eating in a way that is not supportive; we all gotta eat

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:42:46 PM)
we often put ourselves before others in a way that caretakes others

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:43:00 PM)
we often ignore what we know we need

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 5:43:05 PM)
true!

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:43:12 PM)
we stuff our emotions

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:43:21 PM)
or we hade them from ourself

Susan (15-Dec-03 5:43:26 PM)
just wish eating was like smoking and we didn't need it so I could give it up; but then with the way my luck has been going I'd be smoking agian and it would be fattening.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:43:51 PM)
in my example in the article

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:44:08 PM)
I gave up my right to have my needs met

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:44:18 PM)
not only in the one incident

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:44:25 PM)
but in most every case

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:44:40 PM)
I told myself that it was easier to do what he wanted

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:44:55 PM)
than to deal with him when he didn't get what he wanted

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:45:43 PM)
so in caretaking him

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:45:53 PM)
I abandoned my Inner Child

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:46:03 PM)
I no longer took care of my self

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:46:25 PM)
when we ignore or abadon the Inner child we become "needy"

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:46:38 PM)
we soon expect our needs to be met by others

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:46:49 PM)
instead od fullfilling our own needs

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:47:08 PM)
and we are unhappy when those needs are not met by others

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:47:15 PM)
by the ones we gave them up for

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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:47:53 PM)
ok lets do a QA

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 5:48:02 PM)
To ask a question type "?" Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 5:48:07 PM)
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K (15-Dec-03 5:48:21 PM)
?

Cindy - MODERATOR / GCA (15-Dec-03 5:48:28 PM)
This Q/A Period is for asking Christine questions. Please type ?, to ask a question. Have your question typed and ready to post. The Host will notify you when its your turn. Cindy MODERATOR/Galactic Counselor Apprentice

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:48:38 PM)
go ahead K

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 5:48:40 PM)
Kate

K (15-Dec-03 5:48:41 PM)
I am facing a situation that is somewhat complex,

Susan (15-Dec-03 5:48:58 PM)
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Ed (15-Dec-03 5:49:02 PM)
?

Susan (15-Dec-03 5:49:03 PM)
?

K (15-Dec-03 5:49:19 PM)
I am looking at a situation that involves my physical needs being met in one way but my emotional needs laking in another

K (15-Dec-03 5:49:49 PM)
To rid the emotional block I would need to let go of the monitary needs being met

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:50:13 PM)
sometimes we need to hold onto nothing

K (15-Dec-03 5:50:15 PM)
I am working with IC on this but she is so confused and scared that I don't know what agreements I need to make

K (15-Dec-03 5:50:38 PM)
ah, but the rent needs to be paid :>

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:50:47 PM)
yes I know that one

K (15-Dec-03 5:50:54 PM)
she is afraid that it won't be

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:51:12 PM)
but if we hold onto the old, sometimes it blocks other possibilities

K (15-Dec-03 5:51:22 PM)
but it hurts her to work in this situation and I get beet up by the end of the day

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:51:32 PM)
you can reassure her that all will be taken care of

K (15-Dec-03 5:51:40 PM)
this is true, and I have been working on letting her know that

K (15-Dec-03 5:51:52 PM)
what kind of agreement can you suggest with her on this

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:52:19 PM)
look at the bigger picture and tell her that she can trust you Soul to guide you

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:52:23 PM)
but you have to let go

K (15-Dec-03 5:52:39 PM)
ok, thanks

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:52:47 PM)
if you want to work out the details, you might consider a session with a Galactic Counselor

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:52:53 PM)
are we complete?

K (15-Dec-03 5:52:56 PM)
yes, thanks

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:52:59 PM)
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Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 5:52:59 PM)
Ed

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:53:24 PM)
5 seconds

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:53:26 PM)
How can I better get in touch with my innerself. What if I have stumbling blocks along the way, Ie: thyroid disorder which leads to other chemical in balances and effects the mind. Also with synapse and nerve problems along with being ADD. I have been an emotion mess and suffer from obesity and I have been wanting to somehow take care of these issues to help my innerself. CAn I still do this?

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:53:49 PM)
emotional mess that is

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:54:10 PM)
the Inner Child is talking to you trough your body

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:54:41 PM)
there are always stumbling blocks along the way.. that is how we know we need to learn something

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:55:05 PM)
first of all you need to be willing to work on each issue

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:55:11 PM)
and then take them one at a time

cindy (15-Dec-03 5:55:28 PM)
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Ed (15-Dec-03 5:55:37 PM)
I am, but sometimes I dont know how to take care of it, or the times I do know how to take care of it I fiail to follow through on it........

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:55:41 PM)
Louise Hay in her book Heal the Body gives clues to what the body is telling us

Cindy - MODERATOR / GCA (15-Dec-03 5:55:59 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:56:06 PM)
you might want to work with someone

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:56:19 PM)
one of the counselors could help

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:56:28 PM)
but you don't have to do it all at once

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:56:38 PM)
baby steps

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:56:49 PM)
Best way I can describe my life is.......I am a perfectionist but at the same time very lazy....it is i n constant conflict with each other and hence alot of my emotional problems

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:56:55 PM)
ok,,baby steps is gook

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:56:56 PM)
good

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:57:12 PM)
everything is a choice....

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:57:25 PM)
so you need to see what you are willing to do

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:57:38 PM)
and not beat yourself up for what you don't do

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:57:45 PM)
yeah, I do that alot

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:57:53 PM)
beat myself up

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:57:54 PM)
remember everything is already exactly as it should be

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:58:15 PM)
to move us forward in our Soul growth

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:58:22 PM)
are we complete?

Ed (15-Dec-03 5:58:28 PM)
yes

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 5:58:31 PM)
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Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 5:58:32 PM)
Susan

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Susan (15-Dec-03 5:59:19 PM)
one of the things I have been looking at this past couple weeks is the fine line between listening to my IC and fulfillingmy own needs and also allowing myself to have others help me fulfill my needs as well. Sort of a discernment process where I am learing how to recognize when it's ok to share my ic with others and learn to trust that they won't stomp on me. So what do you recommend as a way of allowing for that to happen without givng up self? And how to be able to relate to the ic in another person without treading too hard on them as well?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:00:19 PM)
we need to always keep in mind our motivation behind our actions

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:00:33 PM)
meaning?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:00:38 PM)
on one hand we need to fullfill our need

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:00:52 PM)
and also be kind to ourselves and others

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:01:06 PM)
we only have so much energy to do things

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:01:23 PM)
it is ok for people to help us

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:01:36 PM)
as long as they are doing it in kindness and not to control us

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:01:45 PM)
and the same when we help others

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:01:55 PM)
but sometimes it's very difficult to discern a fine line between our needs and what we can do for others. and it is important to be able to be there for others too and not just fulfill our needs

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:02:05 PM)
i guess its a boundary issue for me

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:02:20 PM)
yes it depends on one's boundaries

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:02:40 PM)
you will know when something triggers you that your boundaries are being crossed

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:02:55 PM)
you just need to stay aware

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:03:00 PM)
it get easier

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:03:06 PM)
are we complete?

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:03:11 PM)
yes, thanks.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:03:13 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:03:18 PM)
let's go on

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:03:52 PM)
what kind of things does the Inner Child do once we have abandoned her

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:03:59 PM)
so that we will notice her

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:04:06 PM)
gain weight

rach (15-Dec-03 6:04:08 PM)
cause physical pain

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:04:10 PM)
(I am using her but I mean him or her)

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:04:16 PM)
kick you butt

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:04:19 PM)
cause dis-ease

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:04:26 PM)
block you

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:04:57 PM)
yes she show us physically in the body what she wants us to know

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:05:11 PM)
we put on weight as a protection

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:05:19 PM)
like a wall around a castle

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:05:43 PM)
cancer for example is a manifestation of self hatred

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:06:15 PM)
when we start to run into things and injure ourself it is our Inner Child expessing anger

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:07:10 PM)
we feel pain both physically and emotionally when our Inner Child is not happy

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:07:20 PM)
when she feels abandoned and neglected

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:07:31 PM)
in my example in my article

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:07:37 PM)
I put on a lot of weight

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:08:04 PM)
so what do we do when we feel the pain of abandonment?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:08:36 PM)
we sheild ourselves with protecting mechanisms

rach (15-Dec-03 6:08:48 PM)
ignore the pain

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:09:00 PM)
numb the pain by eating or drinking

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:09:03 PM)
we push away those we feel abandoned by in order to protect ourselves

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:09:05 PM)
we often eat, and eat and eat

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:09:09 PM)
cry, scream,yell and swear

K (15-Dec-03 6:09:20 PM)
D: All the above

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:09:22 PM)
yes to all of those

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:09:23 PM)
enduldge in chocolate...alot

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:09:28 PM)
medicate medicate medicate

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:09:50 PM)
what are ways that we medicate

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:09:59 PM)
depression drugs?

rach (15-Dec-03 6:10:01 PM)
food!

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:10:03 PM)
paxil prozac?

K (15-Dec-03 6:10:09 PM)
Isolation

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:10:19 PM)
shopping

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:10:25 PM)
yea

magic (15-Dec-03 6:14:45 PM)
PLEASE EXPLAIN

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:15:02 PM)
sometimes we feel like we don't belong here

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:15:13 PM)
this is often the case with starseeds and walk ins

magic (15-Dec-03 6:15:42 PM)
ISNT GETTING TO KNOW YOUR ic THE BEST WAY TO HEART CONNECT?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:15:52 PM)
and as we do spiritual work we sometimes get a bit detached from the earth

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:16:08 PM)
yes getting to know your IC is a good way to get connected

magic (15-Dec-03 6:16:21 PM)
Yes this is a problem....too much spiritual work lately

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:16:22 PM)
also to love your self and your IC is importatnt

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:16:40 PM)
spiritual work is fine as long as you play as well

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:16:59 PM)
we are spiritual being having a 3D experience

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:17:04 PM)
so we need to stay connected

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:17:20 PM)
schedule one day or half day to play everyweek

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:17:29 PM)
are we complete?

magic (15-Dec-03 6:17:38 PM)
Christine....If my body is not telling meanything and my Ic and I are getting along.....but none of my prayers are manifesting.....doing the opposite at that...what could be the problem?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:18:08 PM)
that means you are really good at stuffing

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:18:16 PM)
I know, because I am too

magic (15-Dec-03 6:18:21 PM)
ahh...please explain

Susan (15-Dec-03 6:18:31 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:18:46 PM)
when I don't want to feel things then I simply stop feeling them

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:18:56 PM)
I call that stuffing

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:19:05 PM)
being imune to feeling

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:19:16 PM)
just pretending that I am all love and light

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:19:24 PM)
polarizing to one side

magic (15-Dec-03 6:19:40 PM)
how do I destuff?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:19:55 PM)
so you may need to talk with your IC and tell him or her that you want to "destuff" as you say

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:20:04 PM)
and say you will do it a little at a time

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:20:16 PM)
and that he/she need not be afraid

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:20:44 PM)
then ask your Soul and your guides to send you situations that will bring up what you need to destuff

magic (15-Dec-03 6:20:50 PM)
with regards to money what could I be stuffing...any examples?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:21:05 PM)
I am looking for that one too

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:21:33 PM)
I think it might have to do with not feeling worthy

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:21:33 PM)
Your power of who you really are.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:22:02 PM)
I think we don't get what we want but we get what we think we deserve

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:22:23 PM)
we have dreams of lots of money or for certain material things

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:22:40 PM)
but we don't think we deserve them so they don't manifest

magic (15-Dec-03 6:22:52 PM)
No I really do feel worthy....I will pray for big money opprtunites....they come and then they blow up right in my face in the end...what can you make of this?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:23:12 PM)
If we learn to love ourselves then that will up the deserve level

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:23:58 PM)
I would still say the same.... but that you think you are worthy but some where you are not totally feeling it

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:24:16 PM)
it is most diffiult to be honest with ourselves sometimes

magic (15-Dec-03 6:24:51 PM)
god I know I am past that....I am wondering if envirenment and new geographic situations have anything to do with it...can it?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:24:52 PM)
it is always possible that there are other things but for the details you might like to have a session wth a Counselor

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:25:23 PM)
everything that happens changes us and the environment

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:25:34 PM)
and new lessons come up

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:25:40 PM)
?

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:25:41 PM)
?

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:26:14 PM)
Christine, do you think it's possible that the IC can be afraid of what money will bring?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:26:14 PM)
are we complete for now?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:26:58 PM)
I will go on to rebecca for now

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:27:21 PM)
yes I think that the IC can be afraid of any change

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:27:35 PM)
of any unknown

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:27:50 PM)
we think our IC would benefit from having more but what if they are afraid?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:27:54 PM)
it always seems safer to stay in the known

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:28:27 PM)
the IC may fear having to give up something for the money

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:28:34 PM)
like giving up love

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:28:40 PM)
or our time?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:28:52 PM)
we just have to assure the IC that it will be ok

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:28:58 PM)
and then make sure that it is

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:29:02 PM)
yes also time

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:29:17 PM)
are we complete

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:29:25 PM)
yes thanks

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:29:27 PM)
*

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:29:30 PM)
LLD

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:29:52 PM)
I no longer have a ? thks

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:29:57 PM)
ok

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:30:05 PM)
let me finsh up here

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:30:35 PM)
I found it all to easy to abandon my IC out of fear

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:30:59 PM)
so the last part tonight is how do we find the IC again

cindy (15-Dec-03 6:31:25 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:31:26 PM)
the first step is to realize we have an IC

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:31:48 PM)
and to recognize that we have abandoned her

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:32:04 PM)
we need to figure out what our needs are

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:32:23 PM)
and then make a conscious decision that we will love and connect with our IC

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:32:47 PM)
some of the keys of compassion are good for this

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:33:04 PM)
though I won't go into specifics right now

lightdance (15-Dec-03 6:33:04 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:33:25 PM)
so once we regain a connection with the IC

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:33:41 PM)
it is important that we make sure that we keep it

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:33:56 PM)
we do that by staying aware

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:34:07 PM)
and making sure that our needs are met

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:34:28 PM)
we can do this by paying attention to the signs in the body

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:34:44 PM)
of illness, injury, weight gain or loss etc.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:35:00 PM)
we can pay attention to the "gut" feelings that we get

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:35:16 PM)
pay attention to any sign of fear

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:35:20 PM)
or resistance

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:35:32 PM)
What does weight gain signify?

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:35:38 PM)
oops

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:35:59 PM)
the main thing is to be truthful with yourself about what you are feeling

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:36:08 PM)
and about your boundaries

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:36:20 PM)
lets take one last QA

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:36:39 PM)
If you wish to ask Christine a question, type ? Have your question ready. The Hostess will let you know when it is your turn by private message yn. Cindy MODERATOR/Galactic Counselor Apprentice

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:37:01 PM)
?

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:37:09 PM)
yes Ed

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:37:13 PM)
?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:37:22 PM)
The gut feeling is your inner self trying to communicate?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:37:32 PM)
yes

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:37:44 PM)
I distinguish the gut feeling from intuition

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:37:45 PM)
what about your concense?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:37:57 PM)
I know that is a typo there

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:38:03 PM)
intuition is felt in the heart

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:38:19 PM)
the gut feeling is felt in the stomach or gut

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:38:26 PM)
ok

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:38:39 PM)
is intuition part of the innerself?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:38:45 PM)
or seperate?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:39:04 PM)
the intuition comes from the Soul or Guides

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:39:10 PM)
ok

K (15-Dec-03 6:39:13 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:39:24 PM)
are we complete?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:39:26 PM)
yes ty

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:39:29 PM)
*

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:39:30 PM)
Big T

magic (15-Dec-03 6:39:30 PM)
why is it that it seems like our guides are leading us into precarious situations regarding money when we reach the 5D-9d levels....when you feel like you have broke through to a position where the universe will supply your monetary needs to fulfill your mission...

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:39:32 PM)
you have touched upon some wonderful examples of how to get started....could you say something pertaining to agreements that might help out

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:40:05 PM)
one of the ways to assure the Inner child is to make agreement with him

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:40:30 PM)
and the more we keep the agreements the more the IC can feel secure

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:40:54 PM)
the IC reacts to fear

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:41:16 PM)
so a lot of our job is to help the IC know which fears are life threatening or not

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:41:30 PM)
and about boundries?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:41:31 PM)
agreements help to define that

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:41:44 PM)
yes and boundaries too

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:42:07 PM)
the IC reacts with fear also when boundaries are crossed

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:42:13 PM)
fear or anger

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:42:23 PM)
does that answer your question?

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:42:31 PM)
yes thanks

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:42:33 PM)
complete

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:42:38 PM)
*

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:42:41 PM)
?

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:42:49 PM)
LLd

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:43:00 PM)
Doesn't anger come from fear?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:43:22 PM)
sometimes but not always

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:43:32 PM)
How so?

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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:44:29 PM)
sometimes anger is when a boundary is crossed

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:44:36 PM)
Beneath the anger is fear

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:45:00 PM)
SO if boundary is crossed then is not the IC fearful of something?

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:45:23 PM)
And reacts w/ anger out of protection?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:45:24 PM)
I am thinking about this one

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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:45:50 PM)
I think it depends on the boundary

magic (15-Dec-03 6:46:38 PM)
I think our guides and instict can use anger in appropraite manners sometimes

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:46:42 PM)
sometimes it could be fear that something might not be protected

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:47:10 PM)
but other times we know where we stand and it is just a matter of setting the boundary crosser straight

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:47:33 PM)
For instance, the IC has felt abandoned since I was a baby. Everytime my boundaries or needs not met by others they really are not being met by me either. So, anger is the way to force and control to get needs met and keep self safe.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:48:17 PM)
yes others are a good mirror to how we treat ourselves

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:48:43 PM)
that is a good example where fear is driving the anger

magic (15-Dec-03 6:48:48 PM)
sounds like more agreements need to be conveyed sternly..

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:48:59 PM)
Cross-talk makes it difficult to for others to keep up with the workshop. Please wait till 9:30 pm CST for Free Chat.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:49:05 PM)
yes.. agreements are very powerful

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:49:26 PM)
Do you believe there are 2 base emotions that all the others are based in? Love and Fear?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:49:47 PM)
those are the polarities

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:49:56 PM)
we have love and fear and everything in between

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:50:08 PM)
and when they are balanced it is compassion

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:50:40 PM)
are we complete

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:51:19 PM)
yes, thank you.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:51:26 PM)
*

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:51:35 PM)
are there any more questions?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:51:38 PM)
?

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:51:44 PM)
Ed

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:52:14 PM)
how do you describe compassion then? You say when they are balanced it is compassion, can u explain?

Little China (15-Dec-03 6:52:57 PM)
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Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:53:09 PM)
Compassion is seeing the value in all things

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:53:17 PM)
it is allowing all

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:53:27 PM)
it is accepting all

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:53:41 PM)
and looking at all with kindness

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:54:02 PM)
and that is part of the grand experiment for this 3rd Earth and to get intouch with our inner child to complete the game?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:54:15 PM)
and trusting that all is how it should be for the next step in our soul growth

Laura (15-Dec-03 6:54:17 PM)
yes accept ALL

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:54:45 PM)
Not accept - but be in allowance.

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:55:06 PM)
the purpose of the Grand Experiment is to integrate the polarities

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:55:26 PM)
it is both accept and allow

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:55:41 PM)
integrate into harmony

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:55:58 PM)
this is the highest emotion in the universe

Little China (15-Dec-03 6:56:17 PM)
harmony is the highest?

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:56:31 PM)
compassion

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:56:48 PM)
multidimensional compassion

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:57:04 PM)
are we complete?

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:57:10 PM)
yes

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:57:24 PM)
I would like to thank everyone for coming tonight

Laura (15-Dec-03 6:57:37 PM)
thank you christine

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:57:39 PM)
great job Christine

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:57:43 PM)
thanks to Cindy and Rebecca

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:57:43 PM)
Thank You Christine for a wonderful workshop

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:57:45 PM)
ty Christine

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 6:57:46 PM)
Thank you Christine!!

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:58:00 PM)
I will stay for a bit of free chat

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:58:04 PM)
great job Christine.

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:58:07 PM)
Thank you, Christine.

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:58:13 PM)
bye all

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:58:14 PM)
thanks everyone

lightdance (15-Dec-03 6:58:17 PM)
Thank you cristine

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:58:18 PM)
bye Cindy

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:58:19 PM)
bye Cindy

LLD (15-Dec-03 6:58:27 PM)
Bye cindy - thanks!

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 6:58:29 PM)
bte Cindy, thanks

Cindy - Moderator / GCA (15-Dec-03 6:58:35 PM)
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Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:58:41 PM)
great going everyone

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:58:47 PM)
bye cindy

Big Trouble (15-Dec-03 6:58:59 PM)
now let's get some chocolate for our IC's

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:59:03 PM)
hehe

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:59:07 PM)
have a good evening everyone...:+)

Christine FACILITATOR / GC (15-Dec-03 6:59:09 PM)
lol

Bjelke (15-Dec-03 6:59:12 PM)
yummie

Ed (15-Dec-03 6:59:20 PM)
good bye Rebecca

Rebecca/HOSTESS/GCA (15-Dec-03 6:59:25 PM)
ciao